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Dating in City of London

Find someone in the City for more than a drink

City of London has its own place in our London listings. Start with people around City of London, then adjust your search distance if you would like to see more possibilities across the wider area.

You decide what you are looking for and how quickly to take things. A clear profile and an honest first message are usually the best place to begin.

Casual dating in City of London, your way

Some people join knowing exactly what they want; others prefer to chat and see whether the chemistry is there. The Adult Cafe gives adults in City of London a simple route into a wider dating community where people can be clear about the kind of sex or dating they want.

A practical local guide

Planning a meeting in the City of London

Finding the Barbican

The Barbican’s main entrance is on Silk Street. Its travel guide lists Barbican, Moorgate and Farringdon among the nearby stations. Agree which entrance you mean before setting off: the centre has different routes for different venues.

Access and arrival details

The Barbican provides access information and step-free route guides from Farringdon and Moorgate. Check the route that suits you, along with the opening or event time, rather than relying on a postcode alone.

Make room for a conversation

If you plan to attend an event, arrange time to talk before or afterwards. For a first meeting, a named staffed public venue and separate travel arrangements let each person arrive and leave independently.

Check the official visitor information before travelling: Barbican directions and access information.

Local information checked 28 October 2026.

Put a place to your plans

Places for a first drink, meal or walk

Found someone you would like to meet? Choose a place together where you can talk and see whether the attraction is mutual.

The Ivy City Garden — lunch or dinner

At 69 Old Broad Street, near Liverpool Street station. A restaurant option when you both want to sit down for a meal; compare the menu and book a table directly.

Postman’s Park — a short daytime walk

This garden on King Edward Street has benches and the Watts memorial. Consider a short daytime stroll, with a cafe stop arranged separately. Check the council’s opening times before meeting.

More City pubs, gardens and galleries

Blackfriars: The Blackfriar pub

At 174 Queen Victoria Street, this pub has a distinctive Art Nouveau interior and serves pub food. Consider it for a drink or meal towards the western side of the City; check the current menu and booking arrangements.

Guildhall: art and the Roman amphitheatre

Guildhall Art Gallery in Guildhall Yard offers an indoor alternative to a pub date, with the remains of London’s Roman amphitheatre below. General admission is free and booking is recommended. Check special closures before choosing a date.

Towards Tower Hill: St Dunstan in the East

A small garden within the remains of a church, with benches and planting around the walls. Monument and Tower Hill are the council’s suggested stations. Choose it for a short daytime visit, perhaps with a separate cafe stop.

Check opening times, menus and availability directly before travelling. These are suggestions for an ordinary first date; the venues are not affiliated with The Adult Cafe.

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