Get her to Lie on the bed with her hands tied together, and you devour her. Start with a tease by holding your first and second fingers in a V, placing them on either side of her clitoris, and massaging in a scissoring motion. Then you can use side-to-side motions with your tongue to get her really worked up. “A lot of guys go up and down, but that makes for more pressure on such a sensitive spot, which can be too intense. Side to side feels more relaxing and arousing apparently.

Or: Tie her hands with a scarf and hang them on a hook on a door (the kind you would hang your coat or towel on) before you tantalizes you with oral. Since She’ll feel totally like your sex toy, she can add to the arousal of being restrained by begging you to “release” her and let her orgasm. “Playing up that your’e in control and responsible for getting her off is a huge turn-on,” says You can use his power to either allow her to climax or withhold stimulation for a tortuous minute.